Reb Shlomo The nine days 1994:

What is Kabbala ? it is not that I know more knowledge. Kabbalah is to know
what is going on inside my neshama, inside of God ,listening to one sound
of your neshama.
Kabbala means you can not make it up you have to receive it from someone
else because you have to receive love.
The deepest kabbala is how God loves us. How God takes care of every human
being every creature alive.

When do I have to be Chessed and when Gevura ?
If you know when to be soft and when to be strong you have a beautiful
life. This is the coming together of chessed and gevura which is Tiferet-
beauty.

Netzach- victorious forever is an offshoot of chessed. If you love
something very much then you will fight for it forever/ committed forever. 

Hod: offshoot of gevura. When you really love something committed to
something so much then you glow from it. We have not been exposed to people
who glow so it is hard for us.

Yesod- deepest foundation. Anything you can see of the house is not he
foundation.What you can not see is the foundation.

Malchut- the greatest kingship is when you could make someone else a king. 
Malchut is giving them the space they need to come into the world.Malchut
opens up the gates to give. Parent are kings of our children,. They have
the power to give our children so much space.
God is called Melech ha-olam king of the world because God ,makes room for
everyone. A slave is one who has no room for anybody else.
Chochma-infinite flash of light
Binah-holding on to it connecting to the flash of ,light.
Daaat: internalizing it so it is you
Keter beyond thinking feeling

When is the beginning of us the inside me ?
closest to keter is malchut.because when you make space for someone you are
connected to them in the deepest deepest depths.
Why is it that a bride and groom are treated like a king and queen ?
because a wedding a marriage is making room for each other Shabbat is
malchut shabbat is keter malchut  as we say in the keddusa of shabbat
mussaf Keter yitnu lecha a crown they shall give you
How much space are we making for God ?
how much space does God have in a shul today.
